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Few months back during a conversation with my 19 year old I was trying to understand where we as parents are missing out to connect with our teenage children. Interestingly the more he shared the more I was in surprise as to how much we miss. I have tried to narrow down what we discussed in below points.    Why teenagers don’t talk to their parents Parents' Authority and Lack of Acknowledgment In the past, when kids tried to express themselves, parents often responded with authority, shutting down the conversation without really listening. This teaches many teenagers that their parents wouldn’t understand or value what they have to say. As a result, they keep things to themselves, assuming their thoughts and feelings won’t be acknowledged. Fear of Being Vulnerable Teenagers also worry about being judged or criticized if they tell the truth. Being honest can make them feel exposed and vulnerable, and they fear negative reactions. This fear makes them less likely to open up, kee...

  In today's digital age, social media platforms are flooded with content ranging from the mundane to the extraordinary. Among these posts, videos capturing moments of conflict or distress often garner significant attention, with likes and comments flooding in. Recently, a video of two young siblings pulling each other’s hair, both in pain, circulated on Instagram, receiving over 30 thousand likes and comments from parents who found it "relatable." While some may see this as harmless entertainment, videos like these raise a concerning question: are we losing sensitivity towards others' pain? In the age of viral content, it's become all too common to prioritize capturing an incident on camera over extending a helping hand. Instead of intervening in a situation where someone is in distress, bystanders often choose to record it for social media consumption. This not only desensitizes us to the suffering of others but also perpetuates a culture of voyeurism and detach...

In today's digital age, it's not uncommon for teenagers to spend late nights glued to their smartphones, often at the expense of meaningful interactions with their parents. For many parents, this trend can be a source of concern, leaving them wondering how to address their teen's excessive phone use and reconnect with them on a deeper level. Here are some strategies to help parents navigate this challenge: Understanding the Issue: First and foremost, it's essential for parents to understand why their teens are spending so much time on their phones. Often, excessive smartphone use can be a symptom of underlying issues such as lack of connection to self identity, social acceptance, stress, anxiety, or social isolation. By recognizing these potential root causes, parents can approach the problem with empathy and compassion. Setting Clear Boundaries: One effective way to address excessive smartphone use is by setting clear boundaries around screen time. Establishing rules...

  As a child, I often rode through rice fields, watching small plants shooting up from still water. I'd marvel at the patience farmers must have for the entire growth process. Looking back now, I realize the universal law of pause is fundamental to life. In these pauses, we discover the beauty unfolding in every experience. Yet, in today's world, we're constantly seeking distractions. Even for our children, we fill their schedules to keep them occupied, with toys, activities, and screens. This constant stimulation prevents them from learning how to pause and appreciate. Our brains are shaped by our early environment, but it's equally vital to provide opportunities for them to understand the power of pause. Instead of rushing to entertain your child, take them for a walk to experience the beauty around them. Star or cloud gazing can be another enriching activity. Sitting quietly and listening to a beautiful song together can also foster appreciation. So, take a pause, ...